It doesn't hurt to ask.

　　It doesn't hurt to ask.

　　Author | Xi Ziqian Source | Prose Reading

　　Editor: A Dream of Fangfei

　　Some words are only suitable for silence. To some extent, speaking and not speaking are worlds apart.

　　When you hit the nail on the head, all are not necessarily good. If the debate is too slow, it is better to hide the cleverness than the clumsiness, so there is no need to reveal the mystery. Leave a line, in order to better understand.

　　Don't ask questions you shouldn't ask, and don't try to open the heart that others themselves don't want to open to you. Privacy is always a secret that no one can decode except his own password.

　　If you really want to understand, there is only one way to follow. Don't ask, just wait.

　　Others are willing to say, you naturally understand. Don't ask if you don't want to talk. That's someone else's inner world, and if he wants to say it, he will be completely at ease when he wants to say it again. But it doesn't have to be with you.

　　Don't ask questions, if you ask, you'll be bored.

　　What I want to say is that you regard him as an important person in your heart, and you are moved by his emotions. The problem is that others don't take you seriously.

　　You are optimistic about others, and others are not optimistic about you; You think highly of others, but others don't think highly of you. No matter how heartfelt you are, others may think you have other intentions.

　　The complexity of human nature cannot be measured by our own cognition. Complex, that is, there is no specific standardization, black and white and right and wrong, each expressing his own views. Especially in the dispute of interest relationship, everyone's position of maintaining is generally opposite.

　　That is, their respective principles are inviolable. In everyone's eyes, it is extremely sacred.

　　Don't ask, you ask too many questions, and you can't even tell right from wrong. It's safer not to ask or understand. If you really ask the truth, even though others have said it, you don't understand it. Some things, the more you know, the more messy it is. The key lies in whether what you ask and know really comes from what others say.

　　Words, people say. However, with disobedience and distortion, there is oiling and vinegar. Then, thinking that you know everything, in fact, it is not human talk, it is nonsense.

　　The humor is that others don't want to say it, so why do you ask? You will be heartbroken if you understand the nonsense you ask, and that's asking for it. To put it bluntly, others don't need to tell you the truth, because you can't reach the level of honest dialogue with you in others.

　　This is the world, and people often feel sad, haggard and angry for the world. If you have to understand, you will become more and more ignorant.

　　Don't ask, especially what others don't want to say. There is no need to delve into topics that have nothing to do with you.

　　Don't ask, it is fun, it is a profound knowledge of life.

　　Listening is always higher than asking. People who are good at listening can often go to the depths of insight.

　　Think with good listening, like a person needs to know one thing. He walked and walked without hesitation, and walked into the deep passage, with thinking and analysis, which section of the road had a pit, several flowers and plants, and several doors and windows. After repeated walking, he knew everything about this road like the back of his hand.

　　Because of persistence and thinking, he is the one who knows best without asking. However, if you ask too many questions, you will learn from others' lips, and you will believe them without thinking. However, this is not the case.

　　Independent thinking and independent space need to be preserved.

　　Don't ask too many questions, unless you can completely explain something clearly by asking.

　　Some silence, in fact, is already talking, the answer is not to say. This means that you don't want to know, or you don't want to know now.

　　People who are well-informed know how to read words and observe colors. Therefore, speaking is enough and doing things is just right.

　　You don't have to ask people who treat each other with heart. He will say, if you don't want to understand, he will give you an understanding. This shows that you don't want to know, but that he is willing to open his heart to you.

　　The person who trusts you the most will be sure to make him feel at ease enough, so there is never anything hidden from each other. In the relative world, we are open and honest.

　　The more I want to know something from others, the more difficult it is to tell the truth from the false. So, looking for incomplete patchwork in this rare and incomplete place, it is neither painful nor itchy. Too many knots are almost bound by yourself, and only you can get rid of them.

　　Don't ask questions you shouldn't ask, and don't delve into things you shouldn't understand. There are some things that you shouldn't understand in his place. You don't have to be trapped in your own curiosity. Even if you ask, it won't be too true. The rest of you will only be in your own speculation and can't find the answer you want.

　　You don't have to ask, you can understand. Such a relationship bond will not suddenly break one day because of too many questions, which is the end.

　　Don't ask, stay on the lookout.

　　Don't ask, in case, too, the vast expanse is wide.

　　If you talk from the bottom of your heart, only talk to someone who can talk from the bottom of your heart. The matter of removing the lungs can only be done by the corresponding person who can remove the lungs.

　　People are not all complicated, but the complicated thing is that they can't hold back the heart that is ready to move. If you don't get informed in others, you will be confused in your own life.

　　It doesn't hurt to ask. Be well-advised, don't be disrespectful.

　　Xiziqian

　　Magazine signing writer. China essayist and contemporary writer was the former executive editor of China Literature Monthly, and many articles were published in major books and newspapers.