[Reading at night] See the character in details, and see the people in small things.

　　There is a saying: "the goods are useless now, and the heart is hidden in the body." It may be difficult for us to really understand a person on the surface, but we can see a person's character and sincerity from the details of life.

　　Those seemingly insignificant actions can often reflect a person's true face. People who can truly think of others in nuances are generally not bad in character and sincere in heart.

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　　Some people say that a person's real capital is actually his character. Character is the embodiment of a person's self-cultivation, and it is also the best card for a person. Good character is not only reflected in the right and wrong, but also in the details of life. Being considerate and comfortable is the embodiment of a person's good character.

　　Read such a story. There was a young girl who came home late at night because she worked overtime. When she took the elevator to close the elevator door, two uncles just pressed the elevator outside. Two uncles took a look at the girl. One uncle wanted to go in, and the other uncle grabbed him and said wait.

　　Because the uncle took care of the girl being alone and was afraid that she would be afraid, he said to the girl, "I'm really sorry, my friend is drunk, and we are so drunk that we are afraid of smoking you. Go up first." The girl was very warm after listening to it. She shook her hand and said it didn't matter, but uncle still insisted that the girl go upstairs first.

　　See character for details. Although details are easily overlooked, they can reflect a person's character. People with good character will always think more for others. Give someone a hand when you go in and out; When talking to people, be kind ... These details are the embodiment of good character.

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　　Don't try water, I don't know the depth; People don't pay, I don't know good or bad. Although people often say that people's hearts are complicated and unpredictable, they can often see a person's character clearly through some small things.

　　Once upon a time, there was a wise man who worshipped the prefect's door as a doorman. Others in the house said that the doorman was selfish and the prefect could not tell the truth from the false, so he asked the doorman to play chess with him. The two agreed that the public would be rewarded with two taels of silver if they won.

　　Halfway through, the satrap had official documents to deal with and walked away. Knowing that he would lose if he went on playing this chess, the public took the opportunity to move the position of the chess pieces and turned his inferior situation into an advantageous situation. When the satrap came back, the public easily won the chess game and got two taels of silver. But in fact, the satrap had already noticed that he had moved the pieces, but he didn't expose him.

　　The next day, the satrap asked him to be a guest in another house. The doorman was puzzled and didn't understand why he was dismissed. The satrap said, "At present, you are not thinking about solving the problem, but choosing to beat me by improper means. If you are really in trouble, you will only care about your own interests and abandon me in danger, so you are not suitable to stay with me. " The public had to leave in shame.

　　Little things are seen by people. If a person is still willing to think of others in the face of temptation or difficulties, such talents are worth making friends with.

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　　The ancients said, "Great things in the world must be done in detail." Small things make great things, and details make perfection. Many times, details can help us to recognize a person better. If you want to know whether a person is trustworthy, you can observe the details of his work.

　　People who do things seriously will pay attention to details; People who do things carelessly will ignore details. People who can handle the details well often do things reliably and get along with others with more consideration for their feelings.

　　Details see character, small things see people's hearts. Good character is the wealth of a lifetime; Being sincere is a lifetime of luck. But please remember, you must have a good character first, and then you will have a good popularity.

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　　This article is reproduced from WeChat WeChat official account People's Daily, source: wholeheartedly ask Zen, author: Ming Xinjun