Don't wash your dirty linen in public. Don't mention these three kinds of dirty linen in your stomach!
Source: Poetry World (ID: shicitiandi)
As the old saying goes, good things don't go out, but bad things spread thousands of miles.
There are many people in this world who gloat, and few really wish you a good life.
As the saying goes, you can't wash your dirty linen in public, and you give it to yourself. For a family scandal, you should learn to keep your mouth shut, and few people will know it if you don't say it yourself. If you can't keep your mouth shut, someone will see a joke.
It's good to know that everyone has ashes at the bottom of the pot. Some things are suitable for a family to solve by themselves, digest internally and reflect internally. Don't tell anyone about these three kinds of dirty laundry, which rot in the stomach.
one
Parents are at odds.
In a family, parents are often the pillars of the family.
There are thousands of parents in the world, so some parents may not have such good feelings and often have some friction. This is the helplessness of life, and it is also difficult for our children to change.
The Three Character Classics reads:
Pro-had, remonstrate makes more, I like my color, I like my voice, I don't want to remonstrate, I like to remonstrate, I cry with you, and I don't complain.
Parents have done something wrong, and it is the proper attitude of children to gently persuade them. If you don't save your parents' face, or even tell others, you will undoubtedly lose your parents' face.
Moreover, parents quarrel and are not harmonious. After all, it is a matter of the previous generation. Children can manage it, and if they can't manage it, let them go.
Two
Brother disharmony
A good relationship between a family and its members is a necessary condition to promote the prosperity of the family.
"Zuo Zhuan" wrote:
Brothers fight against the wall, and the outside guards against them. If so, though the brothers are a little angry, they will not abolish Yi's relatives.
Between brothers and sisters, there are no matter how many contradictions there are, they are still a family. "If you are not close, the family will break the bones and connect the tendons." If there is a contradiction, it is good for the family to solve it internally. Tell it to others, but there will be more people watching your excitement and jokes.
Fighting tigers and brothers, fighting fathers and sons, brothers and sisters are United as one, and foreigners dare not bully and help each other. Only when they tell others, will they have the kindness of a mother and brother, and some people will take advantage of it and let the affection between brothers and sisters get farther and farther.
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Contradiction between husband and wife
In a family, the relationship between husband and wife is very important.
It's not easy to become a husband and wife, "we can cross the boat for a hundred years and sleep together for a thousand years". If it doesn't reach the point of irretrievability, don't give up on each other easily, but cherish the fate together.
It is said that "Qi Xin, the husband and wife, breaks the gold", which is the importance of husband and wife being United.
A couple may have accumulated too much grievances and resentment in their ordinary life, but there is nowhere to say. Once they find someone to talk to, they will be in great trouble, but you don't know the consequences of doing so, which is to let others look at your lover with colored glasses and vilify the image of your lover.
In this life, what we care most about is our family, parents, wives and children, which is both our armor and our weakness.
If you live a good life, some people will be jealous of you, and if you live a bad life, some people will gloat. It must be remembered that you should not wash your dirty linen in public, and don't tell others if something stinks in your stomach.
Home is our happy harbor. The happiness of a family needs the careful management of family members. I hope everyone can reap a family with healthy parents, harmonious brothers and harmonious husband and wife.
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