＂Is it unreasonable to give the house to the son and 500,000 cash to the daughter？＂ What about yourself？

　　Money, a word with only ten strokes, affects everyone's life.

　　Money appeared earlier in history. Since it was invented, human beings can't get rid of this demon. In order to get the money to live a good life, people can give up their bottom line, drown their conscience, turn against their loved ones, and calculate their beloved ones.

　　It is true that money makes the mare go, but without money, it is difficult to move.

　　Charles Lamb said:

　　"Money is a passport that allows us to get rid of any regional army except heaven; At the same time, it can also provide us with anything except happiness. "

　　Money is the foundation of our survival and forever. When we enter our old age, whether we have money in hand can directly determine whether our old age will be bleak or not.

　　01. Grandpa Mao's distribution of property was questioned by my father.

　　Some time ago, Grandpa Mao, my grandfather's card friend, came to my house and told my grandfather excitedly: "My old house in the urban-rural fringe was demolished, and now the compensation for demolition has come down, and I have been assigned a house and 500,000 yuan. I thought it over with my wife. I gave my son the house and asked him to sell it for a big house, so that my wife and I could move in. 500 thousand cash to my daughter, I don't prefer boys to girls, my daughter is also my darling. It happens that my daughter is pregnant with a second child, and with this money, she can buy a better house. "

　　After listening to Grandpa Mao's words, my dad suddenly interjected: "Uncle Mao, your arrangement is unreasonable."

　　Grandpa Mao was puzzled and asked my dad, "Is it unreasonable to give the house to my son and 500 thousand cash to my daughter?"

　　"What about yourself?"

　　Dad's question made Grandpa Mao feel puzzled: "What money do I need? My wife and I have a monthly pension of 4,000 yuan, which is enough for pocket money. After our son changed to a big house, we can move in and enjoy our old age while taking the baby. "

　　02. After the money was given to his son, the old man was forced to look after the door for the elderly. Grandpa Ding's lesson was painful.

　　After listening to Grandpa Mao's arrangement for his later years and seeing his optimistic attitude, my grandfather poured cold water on him and told the story of Grandpa Ding.

　　Grandpa Ding is a security guard in a company near us. He is 72 years old. The reason why he still works as a security guard when he is old is not because he wants to kill time or earn some extra money, but because he needs money to live.

　　Because he was too poor before, Grandpa Ding didn't buy social security, so he didn't have a pension. At first, Grandpa Ding wasn't worried. After all, he had a son, who could "support his children for old age".

　　When his son got married, Grandpa Ding and his wife took out their life savings, gave his son a bride price, and bought a wedding room with a down payment. Then, they happily packed their luggage, retired the rental house and prepared to go to his son's house to enjoy themselves.

　　After living in my son's house for less than half a year, Grandpa Ding's daughter-in-law was unwilling, and gave an ultimatum to Grandpa Ding and the old couple: "Either you leave, or I divorce with my child, and the child is my surname. You can choose one."

　　Looking at the silent son and the daughter-in-law who is full of contempt for himself, Grandpa Ding and his wife had to leave this house with tears in their eyes.

　　Now, Grandpa Ding is a janitor, and Grandpa Ding's wife is doing odd jobs in the factory, ready to support herself by her own ability. She can last for a while.

　　Fortunately, with the help of a kind lawyer, Grandpa Ding successfully sued his son and got an alimony.

　　After listening to Grandpa Ding's experience, Grandpa Mao was silent: "My son won't be like this. Besides, don't I still have a daughter?"

　　"Mao Shu, it's not that my mouth stinks. Don't you know how much your son can do? If he has the ability, does he still need to exchange a wedding room by giving a child the surname of the woman? With his salary, it's good to support himself. Also, your daughter may be willing, but your son-in-law and your in-laws are not necessarily. It' s unreasonable to have a son and let my daughter support the elderly! "

　　03. With money in hand, Grandma Xu was robbed by three children to support the elderly;

　　Looking at the silent grandpa Mao, my grandpa talked about grandma Xu's pension experience living in our community.

　　Grandma Xu has three sons. In order to provide for her old age, the three sons have quarreled a lot. The reason for their quarrel is very strange, not to shirk the responsibility of providing for the aged, but to rob the mother of providing for the aged and who will take care of Grandma Xu in her later years.

　　To be precise, they quarreled about who owned the house in the center of the provincial capital city that Grandma Xu had.

　　"I don't sell this house, only for one person, and that person is the best person for me. Whoever is the most filial to me, I will make a will and give him this house. If you don't honor me, you won't have a dime. "

　　With grandma Xu's words, the three sons and daughter-in-law are doing their best to serve their mothers. In the end, the three families reached an agreement to let Grandma Xu take turns to support the elderly.

　　At this point, Grandpa Mao had nothing to say at all, and asked my grandpa and dad for their opinions. Finally, my dad gave me a solution: "The house and money are left in the hands of the old couple for the time being." You can make a will, or watch their performance and give more points to the filial one. "

　　04. It's not too early for parents to divide property.

　　Parents should not divide the property too early, but after you lose the ability to take care of yourself. Regarding the arrangement of property, parents can make a will. When parents just enter the old age society, they must keep their money.

　　Having money in parents' hands has three advantages.

　　First, if you have a house and money, your pension will also be guaranteed;

　　A house is a necessity for your peace of mind. With a house, you don't have to be crowded under the same roof with your children, so you can distance yourself from your children's spouses, avoiding the situation of being disgusted with each other and uncomfortable everywhere. With a house, if your children refuse to provide for your old age, you also have a place to live, so you don't have to worry about being driven around by the landlord. In old age, people's physical function declines rapidly, and it is not good for your health to always move; With a house, if you want to go to a nursing home or get sick, you can sell the house and get a sum of money without looking at the faces of your children.

　　Secondly, even for this property, my son and daughter-in-law have to be polite to you, and my daughter and son-in-law dare not neglect you;

　　Money can't buy affection, but it can buy care and superficial kung fu. For elderly people, even if it is superficial, even if their children don't really want to take care of you, as long as they enjoy the benefits, they don't need to care so much.

　　If the old man has money in his hand, he will see his children and grandchildren more frequently, and his children are more likely to obey.

　　Third, you can prevent them from quarreling before your death, which will break your heart.

　　In a family with many children, no matter how the elderly distribute their property, it may cause disputes. Some people will be greedy and want more property. Those who get less will feel that their parents are partial. Therefore, the chances of quarreling between brothers and sisters over property will be high. Once the children are quarrelling with each other, it is still the parents who are heartbroken and angry for this. In old age, the most taboo is to get angry and work hard. As for the quarrel after you left, it's none of your business.

　　Therefore, people should not divide their property too early in their old age.

　　Today's topic: How do you think Grandpa Mao should arrange the house and money? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.