There are three situations in which men and women have intimate relationships, which is very realistic.

　　The intimate relationship between men and women is a common phenomenon in human society. In real life, there are many intimate relationships between men and women, but most of them can be summarized into the following three situations. This paper will discuss these three situations and analyze their reality.

　　First, emotional resonance and intimate relationship Emotional resonance is a foundation for establishing intimate relationships between people. In some cases, men and women may resonate emotionally and then develop intimate relationships. This situation is common among friends, colleagues or people who have experienced a special event together. Emotional resonance often comes from mutual understanding, trust and sharing, and such intimate relationship is based on the true feelings of both sides.

　　Reality analysis: Emotional resonance is a relatively stable and reliable foundation, which can provide a longer-term intimate relationship. However, emotional resonance is not the only factor to ensure the long-term intimacy. In real life, the emotional resonance between people may weaken or disappear with the passage of time, leading to the breakdown of intimate relationships. Therefore, in the establishment of intimate relationship, in addition to emotional resonance, we also need the efforts and management of both sides.

　　Second, sexual attraction and intimacy Sexual attraction is another common situation in the development of intimacy between men and women. Sexual attraction refers to the emotion between men and women based on gender and attraction. In this case, sexual attraction may be one of the main motives for establishing intimate relationships. Sexual attraction is often accompanied by physical attraction and sexual stimulation, which can be produced after the first acquaintance or after a long time together.

　　Reality analysis: Sexual attraction plays an important role in the relationship between men and women, but it is not enough to maintain a long-term intimate relationship. As time goes on, the initial sexual attraction may weaken, while other factors such as emotional resonance and common values will have an impact on the stability of the relationship. Therefore, although sexual attraction is an aspect of intimacy, it is not the only factor.

　　Third, the feeling of interdependence, no one can do without each other between men and women, once they feel dependent on each other, no one can do without each other, indicating that both sides have developed some feelings and are eager for further exchanges. This dependence can be emotional or life, such as common living habits and economic dependence.

　　Realistic analysis: Mutual dependence can be an important part of intimate relationship, but excessive dependence may also lead to unhealthy relationship. A healthy intimate relationship should be based on equality, respect and mutual support, not excessive dependence. Both sides need to maintain personal independence and self-worth, and at the same time work together to maintain the stability and growth of the relationship.

　　To sum up, most intimate relationships between men and women can be summarized as emotional resonance, sexual attraction and mutual dependence. These factors affect the establishment and maintenance of intimate relationships to varying degrees. However, a real intimate relationship needs more efforts and management, and both sides need constant understanding, communication and support to achieve a long-term and healthy relationship.

　　When establishing intimate relationship, we should not only rely on a single factor, but also comprehensively consider the influence of various factors, so as to create a stable and healthy relationship between men and women.