＂Stop loving someone by chatting!＂

　　01.

　　I saw a message from a listener in the background, and the plain description was particularly distressing.

　　"We are different places. At first, we chatted every day. Now we haven't said a word for several days. I comforted myself that he was too busy, but found that he didn't have time to see me and chat with me, but he had time to get together with friends and talk with the little girl. Seeing him chatting so happily with other girls, I remember that he was so enthusiastic about me at the beginning. I can't bear to delete those chat records, but the person he loves is not me anymore. Tea tea, I decided to let him go and let myself go. "

　　There are really too many boys who are good at forcing girls to break up on their own initiative. Once they meet, it will be a heart injury that is difficult to heal.

　　When we were just together, we talked about everything, and we were gentle and chilling. We talked until two or three in the morning and said good night countless times, but we still couldn't bear to hang up.

　　When I can't go, I have nothing to say, and I am cold and alienated. In fact, the monologue has been played for a long time, and there is really no need to continue to be wronged.

　　But in feelings, many girls like to recall the past.

　　"He used to be really good to me" has become a long-acting medicine to comfort himself.

　　So I turned over the chat records over and over again to find evidence that he loved himself, and found the other party in every word and deed and cared about his own clues.

　　But in fact, you have lost completely since you started trying to prove it.

　　People who really love you, how can you always be wronged?

　　Losing the desire to share is the real beginning of the break. When love words have become lies, why bother to importune perfunctory.

　　02.

　　Read a passage:

　　"He returned my message very slowly, and I deliberately returned slowly in order to earn back face. I thought we were even, only to find that he didn't care."

　　I also read a passage:

　　"Sometimes if I send a WeChat message to someone I like, and he never replies to me, I will delete that dialog box. I always feel that when I see that dialog box, I will see my humility and please."

　　Girls are like hedgehogs. They look pricked on the outside, but they are extremely soft on the inside.

　　I say that I don't care, but when I am ignored, my heart is hurt. I always smile and forgive again and again, and my heart is sad, but I only carry it hard.

　　I want to pretend I don't care so much, but the other person doesn't need to pretend at all, because he really doesn't care.

　　Stubborn, after all, is a big dream, empty.

　　No one can always love a person, and those long-term feelings are all falling in love with the same person over and over again at different times.

　　So even if his enthusiasm at the beginning was true, you can't turn a blind eye to today's perfunctory.

　　He doesn't continue to love you, so even if the memories are beautiful, they are meaningless to the present.

　　When scraping the prize, just scrape out a "thank you" word, and you don't have to scrape it all out before you will stop.

　　Gathering and parting is the normal thing in the world, and you and I are no exception.

　　Concessions without boundaries, soft-hearted, forgiving and pleasing will only make the other side push your luck and act recklessly.

　　Those who cherish you give you so much love, not to make you lose all your dignity on one person.

　　If you want to die with your son, it will always be empty. Let me thank you and give me empty joy.

　　Let go, not only to let you go, but also to let yourself go.

　　03.

　　The chat record is really clear whether a person still loves you or not.

　　I will no longer share my daily life with you, and I will no longer reply to your news in time. I will not say what I can say, and I will not do what I can do, and I will slowly withdraw from your life ...

　　All the bits and pieces are actually showing three words: I don't love. It's just that if you indulge in the past too much, you are doomed to know after the meeting.

　　But you have to believe that no one can live without anyone. When you love, if the other person is worthy, he can be the world. When he is not worthy, you can't let the other person continue to squander your love.

　　Don't hesitate to bid farewell to those who don't love you and don't look back.

　　Because love is mutual, because unconditional giving will never last long.

　　There is a classic saying in the movie Zhang Sanfeng:

　　"Let go of the burden before you can rush to a new life."

　　Knowing how to care deserves to have, and knowing how to cherish can last for a long time.

　　As Zhang Xiaoxian said, "One day, you will smile at the pain of the past. You will thank the person who left you. He doesn't deserve your love, your kindness and your infatuation. He is not the destined person after all, but fortunately he is not. "

　　Love is to be managed by two people together. There is no attachment to the road, and only the front is worth looking forward to.

　　Say goodbye to the wrong one, and then one day, you will meet the right person who just loves you.

　　From meeting to growing old, it is worth it.