35-year-old doctor refuses to marry a college girl： young and beautiful, not worth mentioning in front of Excellence

　　When it comes to marriage, it is difficult for a man with a higher education to accept a woman with a lower education, even if she is young and beautiful.

　　The biggest feature of a man is that the higher the level, the clearer his head, and rationality can completely suppress sensibility.

　　Zhao Zihan, a 35-year-old brother, graduated from a doctor's degree and now works as an associate professor in a university.

　　When we were undergraduate, he happened to graduate from graduate school, because his academic performance was really excellent, and later he studied for a doctorate.

　　In our impression, he is an excellent and rational person, and his body reveals a mature charm.

　　Some time ago, we attended an alumnus' wedding together. The groom put us at the same table with his children. During the chat, they learned that our brother was still single at the age of 35, so they urged him to get married quickly.

　　The groom grew up as an ordinary person. They either graduated from junior college or high school. Because everyone lives in different circles, it is a particularly worrying thing for them to be unmarried at the age of 35.

　　One of them is enthusiastic and wants to introduce his cousin to his senior brother. According to him, his cousin is 26 years old, graduated from junior college, and now works in a private enterprise with unknown income, but she is young and beautiful and has an outstanding figure.

　　Xiao Xiao joked: "One of you is talented and the other is beautiful. It's a perfect match."

　　Brother smiled and politely refused, and thanked Xiao Xiao for his kindness.

　　I was a little unhappy when I was young, but I didn't fully show it.

　　Afterwards, my brother revealed in the process of chatting with us that he would not accept a girl with a college degree, even if she was young and beautiful.

　　The senior brother said: "Education is very important, which not only represents a person's level, but also symbolizes the level of genes. I want to marry not only my wife, but also the mother of my future children. The so-called young beauty is not worth mentioning in front of Excellence. "

　　Come to think of it, there is nothing wrong with his idea. How can a doctor marry a girl with a low education?

　　98% of people with high academic qualifications attach great importance to academic qualifications, whether it is making friends or choosing a spouse.

　　People with high academic qualifications pay special attention to academic qualifications when choosing a spouse.

　　If you look closely, you will find that in 95% of cases, the other half of the highly educated are also highly educated, and there are only a handful of couples with large differences in academic qualifications in real life.

　　The source of this phenomenon mainly has the following reasons.

　　1. Husband and wife need a common language.

　　If there is a lack of common language between husband and wife, they can only communicate around trivial things such as daily necessities, and marriage will go wrong after a long time.

　　Whether two people have a common language, ideological level is very important.

　　There is a big difference in academic qualifications, and the ideological level is not at the same level. Naturally, there is no common language.

　　It's like a husband and wife watching a historical drama of costume together, and a highly educated husband can see at a glance the loopholes in the screenwriter and the irrationality of the plot, and even many places that violate history.

　　The low-educated wife is completely ignorant and even reads TV dramas as history.

　　How can two people like this live together? It's only a matter of time before we part.

　　2. Excellent genes have an important influence on children.

　　As the elder brother said, he wants to marry not only his wife, but also the mother of future children.

　　Anyone who knows about genetics knows how important the influence of genes on children is, and some natural things are hard to change the day after tomorrow.

　　People who don't know biology may take an example, but there are only a handful of genetic mutations. Everyone should respect science and high probability events.

　　Children born to highly educated couples can often inherit better genes. Coupled with the excellent husband and wife, children can enjoy a better education from birth, and he can win at the starting line.

　　3. The circle layer decides the choice

　　What kind of partner a person chooses is often determined by his circle.

　　As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, and high-level men are surrounded by high-level people. Excellent men are exposed to excellent women. How can people who have seen white swans accept sparrows?

　　Although everyone is unwilling to admit that he is a sparrow, it is undeniable that there are levels of people.

　　Men of different levels have different needs for marriage.

　　If you look closely, you will find that although they are of the same sex, the gap between men can often be described as a world apart.

　　Because of their different levels, they are often two completely different people, and they have nothing in common with each other, and their ideological levels and horizons are thousands of miles apart.

　　These are determined by a person's education, level and living environment.

　　The biggest need of men at the bottom is to have children. The purpose of their marriage is to carry on the family line, and some people live for the same purpose, so their requirements for the other half are very simple, as long as they are women.

　　This is normal, because they have no career worth pursuing, so they regard the birth of the next generation as their life goal.

　　There will be some individual differences in the needs of middle-level men. After the woman reaches certain conditions, some of them care about personality and some care about appearance, and with their conditions, they can really choose the right woman according to their own ideas.

　　They will not consider having children, because a woman will have children, and they are not married solely for having children, so they will have some additional requirements for women.

　　The requirements of senior men for the other half are often based on strength, which is often comprehensive. Education, work ability, income, family background and appearance are all very important.

　　In the final analysis, high-level men only want to marry high-level women, because this can achieve the result of strong cooperation.

　　People are like this. The higher you go, the more you want to meet better people.

　　Different people are in different circles, and people in different circles have completely different views on life and marriage.