A week before the wedding, after accidentally discovering that his fiancee went to see a male netizen, the young man was so angry that he proposed to break off his marriage.

　　01

　　Love and marriage must be loyal, and we must be single-minded to others in order to gain happiness. If you are half-hearted, eating the bowl and looking at the pot, it won't do. No one is a fool. You think the other person doesn't know about your little moves, but there is no windtight wall in the world.

　　Now some people think that you should be loyal to each other after marriage and not cheat, but it doesn't matter before marriage, so you have sex before marriage. Some people even tread on several boats and juggle between several lovers at the same time, thinking that this is a skill!

　　A week before the wedding, the young man accidentally found out that his fiancee had gone to see a male netizen, so he was so angry that he directly proposed to break off the marriage, and there was no room for discussion. This happened to Mr. Ding. Let's listen to his story.

　　02

　　Self-report from Mr. Ding:

　　My girlfriend and I were introduced by an old classmate. In fact, the old classmate is not familiar with this girl, and she is the introduction object of the girl's mother. My old classmate's mother asked her if she had any suitable buddies, and she introduced me to them.

　　When I was dating my girlfriend, I didn't feel anything for her. I thought she was neither good nor bad. But she fell in love with me at first sight. After the blind date, she contacted me again and again, asking me to eat and watch movies.

　　As the old saying goes, men chase women across the mountain, while women chase men across the veil. I have always taken the initiative to pursue other girls, and no girl has ever taken the initiative to pursue me. Now I am a little flattered that a girl has taken the initiative to pursue me.

　　After I officially fell in love with her, about three months later, I happened to know that she seemed to have had several boyfriends. I asked her if it was like this. She was very angry at that time, and she lost her temper at me, saying that it is not normal to have an ex these days. She has never asked about my past. How can I ask about her past?

　　She also said that I was old feudal and even cared about her past. She didn't do anything in the past, that is, she had several boyfriends, and then she broke up when it was inappropriate to talk about it! She lost her temper at me, and I thought maybe I was wrong. I had two ex-girlfriends, too. Why can't she have an ex-boyfriend?

　　03

　　I apologized to her, saying that it was all my fault and I shouldn't ask. Actually, I'm just asking, and I have no other thoughts. But her reaction was so fierce that I was secretly a little surprised, and I thought maybe girls are like this!

　　Under my repeated apologies, my girlfriend forgave me like a sinner, and we made up.

　　After being in love for another three months, she offered to get married. She said that her parents have been urging marriage, and she and I are not young, so we should get married. I think so. In fact, my parents are also urging marriage, so I promised to marry her.

　　In the next step, the parents of both sides will sit together and discuss the marriage, from the bride price to the wedding room. Every request made by the woman's family exceeded our budget, but my parents gritted their teeth and agreed.

　　A week before I got married, I wanted to send invitations with my girlfriend, but she suddenly told me that she would go to other places. I wonder why she suddenly went out of town. She said she would take a trip with her best friend, as they had agreed before, and they would take a trip before they got married.

　　04

　　The best friend mentioned by my girlfriend is her deskmate at school, and now she is in other places. Usually, they always chat on their mobile phones. I never look at her mobile phone to show my trust in my girlfriend. She always says she is chatting with her best friend.

　　Now that my girlfriend is going to travel with her best friend, although I am a little unhappy, I feel that there are many things to do in preparing for the wedding, but she insists on going, and I can't stop her. In this way, my girlfriend went on a trip and said she would come back in three days and go out for three days and two nights.

　　The day after my girlfriend left, when I accompanied my mother to buy wedding candy, I met my girlfriend's best friend and she came back to her hometown. She was very enthusiastic when she saw me, saying that she came back early just to attend my girlfriend's wedding.

　　I was going to ask her about the trip, but after hearing what she said, I was even more puzzled. After a few perfunctory words from my best friend, I quietly sent a message to my girlfriend asking her about the trip. She said that she was visiting the scenic spot with her best friend at the moment, and she didn't have time to talk to me. She would contact me when she got back to the hotel.

　　I was completely dumbfounded. She said she was visiting the scenic spot with her best friend, but her best friend was clearly in front of me. Of course, I was not in the mood to buy any more candy, so I immediately investigated my girlfriend's whereabouts. After this investigation, I realized that she didn't travel with her girlfriends at all, but with male netizens.

　　05

　　Girlfriends usually talk to their girlfriends online, but they are not at all, but chatting with that male netizen. Now that my girlfriend is getting married, she wants to let herself go once, so she went to see the male net friend.

　　I also found that my girlfriend dated several boyfriends before she fell in love with me, all of whom lived together. I remember asking her ex-boyfriend about her quarrel with me before, and I realized that she had a guilty conscience and was angry with me.

　　Three days later, my girlfriend came back, looking radiant. She was going to get married, but I asked her to break off. She was surprised, so she lost her temper at me again and said that I took marriage seriously.

　　After I threw a stack of photos of her with her boyfriend in front of her, she fell silent. She can't hide the fact that she went out to travel with male netizens, so she can only admit it.

　　She cried and begged me to forgive her, saying that she was confused for a moment and was fooled by a male netizen before meeting her. After we get married, she must be completely separated from her boyfriend, and she must be with me wholeheartedly.

　　But I still insisted on breaking up with her, and I couldn't accept that my girlfriend was traveling with her boyfriend on the eve of my wedding.

　　Conclusion:

　　Now some people want to indulge themselves on the eve of their wedding, so they go out and have sex. They think they're doing it in the dark, and the object won't know. But paper can't cover fire, and if people don't know it, they have to do it themselves.

　　The situation Mr. Ding encountered in the above article, even if his girlfriend's behavior was not found before marriage, he would divorce if he found out after marriage. So don't be lucky. Love and marriage should be down-to-earth and serious. Between lovers or between husband and wife, be honest with each other and be loyal.

　　Author: A creator in the field of emotion, focusing on various problems in the field of emotion, welcome to pay attention. Life is warm because of affection and love. Let's grow up in love and spend every day in true feelings.